5/28/09

Question to the world...

Why is it forbidden to have a male friend when one is a female, without everyone assuming you are dating him?

Is it the same with males having female friends?

Why is females so mean to each other really... It's like all females have to back-stab each other just cause they can?

is there anymore females out there that is tired of seeing in real life and in movies how females are always trying to out-smart each other over a man, or over a job...?

It's so degrading watching females in movies being a) the prize or b) a back stabbing bitch

Why can't we just be friends, and never loose our heads? I'm starting to suspect movies and tv-series point in life is to make women stupid... It's all a conspiracy...

Keep the ladies thinking they really have to be mean to each other, so they won't group themselves and actually stop important stuff as, spousal abuse, AIDS, money over sense... and so on, so on...

or am I hoping for the wrong stuff?
Everyone getting along and so... World peace, might happen if we stopped gossip... or am I having too big hopes?

6 comments:

  1. Women should be allowed to have male friends. I had single women friends who were friends with me long before I was married, and we never thought of dating.

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  2. Nope, not you, but the other once around you might have... as in, why she isn't dating, she has 'friends' that she date... you know, back-talking

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  3. Mmm possibly. I think it depends on the crowd. My group of friends are generally just friends and we've stayed that way for nearly two decades now. These women I'm referring to would date guys outside our "circle" ---one wound up dating women--- whether or not they were with someone was never a subject for back-talk.

    We'd talk about relationships of course, cause that's what friends do.

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  4. there is always other clicks of friends, you don't know all friends of your friend, so someone is always annoyed at another for being able to have other gender friends...

    it's jealousy cause they themselves can't have them, or it's cause they'd wanna know the other gender friend too... or something like that... there is no logic at times.

    Just pick any soap, and watch it for a while, you'll go insane

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  5. Well, yes there are different cliques of friends, but in the college I went to different gender friends were pretty much accepted. I'd say half my good friends were women, half men, and that was considered normal, if not necessarily the "average" experience.

    I'm not saying EVERYONE was like that, but a good number were. There were jealousies and such, but for most part men and women mixed as friends, as well as boyfriend-girlfriend.

    Again, it really, really depends on the crowd.

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  6. No use getting frustrated, luckily there are people like us to set an example for the rest :P

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